Subject: HELP - ADVICE NEEDED Sun Mar 13, 2016 6:58 am
Ok...
So...
I might actually be getting into my first relationship. I'm a total noob when it comes to such stuff, but I care for the girl and I want to make it work.
So I want advice.
I realize this isn't the best to ask for advice in regards to such a matter, but it won't hurt.
Thanks in advance.
Lego Shaq
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Subject: Re: HELP - ADVICE NEEDED Sun Mar 13, 2016 8:54 am
Well Sliss what exactly do you want advice on? Just how to make her happy?
To help tell us about her. What's she like? What's her personality like? I'd love to help you bro, but this is some pretty important stuff.
King Proto Level 5 CPU
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Subject: Re: HELP - ADVICE NEEDED Sun Mar 13, 2016 10:35 am
Dang dude you're lucky I could never ask a girl out
I guess the best thing to do would be as caring and considerate as possible, but don't be to much of a push over as I heard some girls don't like that.
Also, congrats dude!
P.S. Sorry if this doesn't help.
Kzinssie Level 5 CPU
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Subject: Re: HELP - ADVICE NEEDED Sun Mar 13, 2016 12:50 pm
You're gonna have to be more specific than "there's a girl". Different people have different things they want out of a relationship, there's not one advice thats gonna work across the board.
Slissith
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Subject: Re: HELP - ADVICE NEEDED Sun Mar 13, 2016 7:14 pm
Lego Shaq wrote:
Well Sliss what exactly do you want advice on? Just how to make her happy?
Not quite.
Making her happy is not really the issue at hand. I'm fairly certain neither one of thus will have trouble making one another happy in the initial stages of the relationship where there's gonna be the initial spark. Even still it will be largely dependent on the statuses of our lives as individual people and how fullfilling said lives are. In the end I could be Mr. Perfect and still not make her happy for a multitude of reasons.
What I really want advice on is what NOT to do.
For instance, I already know I shouldn't neglect my friends and other facets of my life for her sake, even if the urge is there.
And I already know I shouldn't get comfortable with her to the point the passion and all romantic aspects of our relationship fade.
To be more clear, I don't exactly aim to make her happy. What I want is to make the relationship work in the long run.
SS_Maeweather wrote:
Dang dude you're lucky I could never ask a girl out
I guess the best thing to do would be as caring and considerate as possible, but don't be to much of a push over as I heard some girls don't like that.
Also, congrats dude!
P.S. Sorry if this doesn't help.
Thank you. To be honest, the fact that we were classmates in high school has helped a ton. There's good communication and familiarity. If it wasn't for those factors, it'd honestly be improbable.
Kzinssie wrote:
You're gonna have to be more specific than "there's a girl". Different people have different things they want out of a relationship, there's not one advice thats gonna work across the board.
I suppose you have a point. And to think it never crossed my mind...
It will also depend on what I want out of the relationship and what she wants out of it...
It's too early to ask that, but it definitely is something to keep in mind.
...
Thanks folks!
Kzinssie Level 5 CPU
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Subject: Re: HELP - ADVICE NEEDED Mon Mar 14, 2016 9:31 am
One important general piece of advice, if you met as friends that shouldn't change too drastically now that you're in a relationship. I've been with my girlfriend for a little over a year now but we were friends for like 2 years before that, and the only thing that's really changed is that we go on dates independent of our other friends more often. It's not a Massive Step Forward that changes everything about the relationship.
Dustination
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Subject: Re: HELP - ADVICE NEEDED Mon Mar 14, 2016 9:43 am
Sex her
Braystar Level 7 CPU
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Subject: Re: HELP - ADVICE NEEDED Mon Mar 14, 2016 4:23 pm
Fck her right in the cat
Lego Shaq
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Subject: Re: HELP - ADVICE NEEDED Mon Mar 14, 2016 5:06 pm
Well Sliss, here's what not to do...
-Don't get overly possessive. Let her hang out with other guys. This should be an obvious, don't control her. -Make sure to talk to her every day. May seem excessive but it's important for communication to be heavy in a relationship, even on a day-to-day basis
All I got for now, but those are 2 big things to remember.
Slissith
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Subject: Re: HELP - ADVICE NEEDED Thu Mar 17, 2016 5:56 am
Kzinssie wrote:
One important general piece of advice, if you met as friends that shouldn't change too drastically now that you're in a relationship. I've been with my girlfriend for a little over a year now but we were friends for like 2 years before that, and the only thing that's really changed is that we go on dates independent of our other friends more often. It's not a Massive Step Forward that changes everything about the relationship.
Thanks. In my case she and I were friends back in the day but we haven't hanged out for a long time. However the basis of our interaction is something along the lines of friendship or at least, familiarity which is probably why our communication is so good. I guess it's nice to hear that being friends can work to the benefit of the relationship.
Dustination wrote:
Sex her
Braystar wrote:
Fck her right in the cat
Oooh yeah:
Lego Shaq wrote:
Well Sliss, here's what not to do...
-Don't get overly possessive. Let her hang out with other guys. This should be an obvious, don't control her. -Make sure to talk to her every day. May seem excessive but it's important for communication to be heavy in a relationship, even on a day-to-day basis
All I got for now, but those are 2 big things to remember.
I definitely get what you mean. I'm somewhat clingy and although I' owrking on it, it really shows on occasion. For example I called her on Wednesday but since I had scheduled for Friday, she told me to call her next week. She wouldn't even settle for Saturday because she knows I clean the house during that time. I was very confused at first because the 2 dates went really well but now I'm 99% sure she's playing hard to get or something, especially since she mentioned a specific date. However I'm savage so I'll call her on Thursday instead.
Silly, insecure girl. Don't you know you can't outrun love?
procrastinatingDestiny Level 6 CPU
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Subject: Re: HELP - ADVICE NEEDED Thu Mar 17, 2016 8:25 am
What is love?
thebuddyadrian Level 5 CPU
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Subject: Re: HELP - ADVICE NEEDED Thu Mar 17, 2016 8:11 pm
DestinyIntwined wrote:
What is love?
This will get you caught up
procrastinatingDestiny Level 6 CPU
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Subject: Re: HELP - ADVICE NEEDED Fri Mar 18, 2016 9:08 am
DestinyIntwined wrote:
What is love?
Baby don't hurt me
thebuddyadrian Level 5 CPU
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Subject: Re: HELP - ADVICE NEEDED Sun Mar 20, 2016 8:27 pm
This is what you do -Push her to a wall -Slowly grab her -Up throw -Up air -Side throw -Side smash -WOMBO COMBO OHHHH OHHHH
King Proto Level 5 CPU
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Subject: Re: HELP - ADVICE NEEDED Mon Mar 21, 2016 3:39 am
thebuddyadrian wrote:
This is what you do -Push her to a wall -Slowly grab her -Up throw -Up air -Side throw -Side smash -WOMBO COMBO OHHHH OHHHH